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COMING SOON! The Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo
For those turned on to giving or receiving power, the hottest fantasies are often those that are the least acceptable — those that mirror historical oppression (Nazism, plantation slavery), crime (incest, ageplay, rape), and other “unacceptable” behaviors. Because these fantasies are deeply charged, they are among the riskiest and most challenging to enact. Yet it is possible, and often very rewarding, to do so. With sections on playing with sexual taboos like age and rape, cultural taboos like race and identity, and physical taboos like scat play, this is a thorough and responsible guide to BDSM’s furthest regions.
Mollena Williams has more than 12 years’ experience in the BDSM and alternative lifestyle community, and has traveled across the nation speaking about race play and other taboo playstyles. Her essay “BDSM and Race Play” has been selected for Best Sex Writing 2010. Her website, “The Perverted Negress,” is at www.mollena.com.


Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she’s relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, an experienced submissive analyzes the realities of the dominant/submissive lifestyle and suggests ways both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure.
At the heart of the book is a new emotion Cunningham has dubbed “Conquer Me” – defined as “the submissive’s internal demand for a show of strength.” This book explains this unique need and how to get it met – essential knowledge for any submissive or couple who wants to get the most out of their D/S lifestyle.
Kacie Cunningham had her first experience with kink when she was 18 and has spent the last decade searching for better and safer methods. This is her first book.


Beyond the basics of polyamory lies a complex web of negotiations, agreements, pitfalls and rewards.
Kathy Labriola, a relationships counselor
who has worked for many years with singles,
couples and groups in polyamorous and open
relationships, sets forth, explains and analyzes
some of the realities of alternative lifestyles:
dealing with common relationship-disrupters
- managing jealousy
- choosing compatible partners
- combining BDSM with polyamory
- distinguishing between sex addiction and polyamory,
... and much more.
Kathy Labriola has extensive experience assisting people with the challenges of nontraditional relationships, sexual orientation crises, political activism, and class struggle. A counselor and nurse, she has written articles for LovingMore, Polymatchmaker.com, and many other publications and websites.

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